Wednesday, September 30, 2015
Conversely, write about something that's kicking ass right now -
Ooh, despite my usual Eeyore exterior I do have some points in life I'm happy with.
One involves such adult concepts as marketing plans, business plans and networking. The result of which will hopefully mean we can afford holidays again! Yes, it does boil down to that basic desire because it means I'm doing well if I can have a break away from it all!
The other ties in with everything I experienced last year and a move towards allying myself with a political party, becoming an activist, organiser and general do-er rather than just letting things pass by. It's all that 'stand for something...'
I've always been opinionated, might as well do something about it at last.
This last thing is why I've been so tired of late, there's a local by-election, we have a candidate and no clue as to what we're really doing. Cue lots of running around. It has been hard work, my ME/CFS monster is wondering what the f**k I think I'm doing but it's all part of the learning curve.
The guy who is likely to win is one of those politician types; all smarmy arrogance and disregarding anyone not important enough. That would make every single councillor we have in the area a white, elderly male - they'd make a great identity parade in a police line-up but it's rubbish for diversity.
Tuesday, September 29, 2015
Write about an area in your life you'd like to improve -
Ooft, again, just the one?
Okay, there are more important ones, some which I obviously can't do anything about but would otherwise be top of the list. In that light then there is an area that would give me a deep sense of happiness were I to have some level of competence.
Indeed, this is something that I am working towards although I don't get enough time to truly dedicate to my practice.
My art, or scribblings as would be more apt. As yet I haven't developed a style of my own, I have a tendency to be a little too illustrative where I'd like to be more abstract. I don't want to show, I want to hint at and have the eye do the remaining work.
Recently I've tried a couple of exercises to help my lack of tone - two medium, two colours, two hours. I only ever really do sketches rather than work at a piece until I'm happy. I actually quite like what I've produced recently.
This post needs examples, it's late, I'm tired, so will add them tomorrow morning.
Sunday, September 27, 2015
...according to their daily illustration. So apt that they play a part in this.
Think of any word. Search for it on Google images. Write something inspired by the 11th image.
First word that popped into my head was 'friend'. Which is quite lame really but I'm watching TV just now so I've probably heard it a minute beforehand. As I'm watching Zoo it's not as weird as this could have been.
As someone whose highlight of the year is a holiday somewhere sunny then this kind of image immediately warms me inside. It doesn't make me think of friendship but of the sun on my face, the breeze from the ocean and that general atmosphere of calm relaxation.
I can conjure up that feeling now and, especially as there will sadly be no break for us this year, it is delicious.
There's a little beach near where we've gone on holiday the past few years, strangely we've never gone during the day but in the evening as we walk down to the town centre. As the sun sets we take in the colours in the sky as they dip into the ocean, the water is still warm from the day and without the crowds of determined sun worshippers it is perfect.
Every now and then there are older, Spanish people swimming or fishing in the quiet twilight. It is usually after dinner for us and before dinner for the locals, we nod greetings, smile and continue on our way.
The Google image doesn't make me think of friends - it makes me think of family, my family, and the memories we will carry with us forever.
Saturday, September 26, 2015
Write about a lesson you've learned the hard way -
Again, so many to choose from: not relying on people, or trusting them, or believing what they say, or that they care about me but enough about my failed marriage. Aha!
Here's a lesson; don't expect things to happen by chance or because you think they should.
I was brought up to trust that life would work out. You grew up, got a job, got married, had a family, home, a quiet contented existence. That sounds so boring yet so comforting and at the moment that's the mood I'm in. Needing comfort. It wasn't an entrenched middle-class sense of entitlement although it might be sounding very like just that, I could think of nothing worse than being thought of in that demographic; we're not talking house prices and having a better car than the neighbours. Rather this is the plain blueprint my parents set out for me but then hid the plans so I had no idea how to achieve any of it and lacked the confidence to reach out for it.
So naturally I screwed the whole thing up.
Learning a lesson the hard way kind of ties in with everything I hope my sons have learned from me (Day 21). I hope they go for what they want rather than wait for permission because even now, on my own, it's as though I can't go ahead without that parental say so.
And that's f**ked up.
On a brighter note, a colleague is in the US just now for her friend's wedding. She's visiting the same area I lived in and it brought back some lovely memories. See, I've not been a complete loss but I wish I could have stayed there longer! I'd love to go back, visit old haunts and show my sons around, alas the familiar tale that has held me back so often - lack of funds. One day maybe, before the boys have flown the nest, time is running out.
Friday, September 25, 2015
...and on the way I dropped it.
Write a letter to someone, anyone -
I used to write letters, back in the days where penpals were the only contact with the rest of the world. To me it is a deeply personal thing.
I'm not saying that as a cop out or because I'm deadly tired.
The letter is written in my atrocious handwriting, what needed to be said has been. It can never be sent, it will never be read but as a writing exercise is was cathartic.
Perhaps I will destroy the letter or hide it away in a drawer where I'll find it some day and unlock those emotions again with each word. In the age of over sharing allow me this indulgence. Although this blog is possibly for my eyes only so the contents would be perfectly safe, a letter is best written by hand.
Wednesday, September 23, 2015
Considering how diverse my music collection is, this one should be interesting...
Put your music on shuffle and post the first ten songs -
Tuesday, September 22, 2015
This is a good one.
What three lessons do you want your children to learn from you?
Oh so many things but I do realise they have to make their own mistakes and not listen to my advice all the time. It's how things work but I know there are (at least) three lessons they have appreciated.
If you have to judge a person do so on their character; not their background. I guess this brings in everything from race to religion. I did mistakenly introduce a touch of naivety in my sons with this lesson as they were once extremely puzzled why girl classmates shouldn't be able to do all things as they haven't ever gotten that "girls pink, boys blue" memo. Well, their mum doesn't live by those rules.
You are masters of your own universe. Yes there are many things in this world that could stop you doing what you want to but you have to take all the opportunities you can. It might not quite lead where you want it to but make the best of it and things will work out just fine. It's something I wish I had been told and yes, had I been things would have worked out more than just fine!
Travel, see as much as you can of this world. I hopefully have given them a good start but I'd love them to travel, have adventures, experience this world and appreciate all it has to offer. If Eldest does become the pilot he wishes to be then this should be fairly easy!
All in all I just want them to be happy in what they do, confident in who they are and content with the life they lead. Maybe that should be three lessons in itself.
Sunday, September 20, 2015
Post about three celebrity crushes
And that's not as interesting as it would have been to discuss three weird crushes.
Having made the admission yesterday I do happily agree that celebrity crushes are easy to fall into, or at least crushes on the characters celebrities play. Musicians, not really my thing although bizarrely I used to think what it would be like to be friends with some and I have actually kissed a fairly well known musician.
Celebrities who are celebrities and that's all...there's nothing to crush on, a shallow desire sure but no crush. Maybe that's against the rules then, to crush on a character rather than a celeb but there you go. I am nothing if not swimming against the tide. I'll chose folk I think are as close to celebrity as I think I'm going to get.
So, now to think...
Do I have to justify my reasons? Uft!
Steve Carell - especially his voice
John Cusack - because I grew up in the 80s and...of course.
Saturday, September 19, 2015
I could choose all sorts of things, all sorts of people to express love for but I realised a few years ago what a fickle emotion it is. The love I have for my sons, the love I had for my parents (difficult at times), the love I have for silly day to day things but when people say love they mean finding a soulmate. I thought I was but as it was based on a lie then it really wasn't so therefore...
That Scottish 80s band Wet, Wet, Wet said it best when they sang:
Been all around the edges but I've never been in love
Friday, September 18, 2015
- I like being born in December
- Love being a mum to twins, I'd have been very happy to have triplets too
- My bucket list is full of strange things
- I wish I could recapture the feeling of Christmas when I was young
- The smell of a sunny day in late autumn is the best thing
- I really don't like seeing other people's feet
- If I could afford to I'd go on holiday every chance I could
- The company of animals is my preferred choice these days
- I'm very opinionated
- And stubborn
- I like to perform random acts of kindness for no reason at all (hence the name random)
- I sometimes imagine what it would be like to live in another country, be from another country
- I have never been loved by a man (I wasn't related to that is, I mean lusty love not family!)
- I am rubbish at starting and maintaining a conversation nine times out of ten
- I don't own a Kindle (other electronic books are available for rejection) nor do I intend to
- I'd like to be a published author one day
- I'd like to sell some of my artwork too for that matter
- People don't get me
- Being a stay-at-home mum was (despite rubbish marriage) the best job I've done
- I'd like to be content
- I really don't like driving but I have to, if I could I'd bike and take the train everywhere
- Sometimes I like to stop and just take it all in
- I want to be better at speaking other languages
- I once thought of becoming a photographer
- My dad's family reportedly descend from Huguenot stock
- I own many books, don't ask me to give any of them up
- I like being European but have never thought of myself as British, am a republican too
- I hate it when people sing to each other, even worse if they sing at me *cringe*
- I can bend my fingers right back
- I'm quite a good painter and decorator but I can't wallpaper to save myself!
Thursday, September 17, 2015
Post about your zodiac sign, and whether or not it fits you.
|Look I'm a fire sign!|
I'm a Sagittarian. More fittingly I was born in the Chinese astrological Year of the Pig, that probably says more about me.
I do like being the sign of the archer (design wise at least) but we're meant to be sporty, the life and soul of the party and I'm anything but that. It makes for nice jewellery though and there is something of human comfort in having a set jewel, colour, planet and all that kind of thing.
We are meant to love travel and I most certainly do, if money were no object I would be off several times a year (ignoring any physical restraints because lack of money is there to hold me back anyway!)
My ex was a Virgo, we're meant to be incompatible signs, well, should have taken that as a warning then.
Wednesday, September 16, 2015
As it is a thing rather than a person I'm going to go for something I do look forward to going back to when my health returns.
There is no way I would have gone to a dance class but with Zumba talent is not needed. I absolutely loved my Zumba on Mondays and, if I had the time, Thursdays too. My whole day had a bounce to it and even now hearing one of the songs has me doing a little jig in my seat.
I do have Just Dance, that Wii game, bought before the illness started. Sons and I used to have competitions to see how many we could do and who would get the highest score, it was great fun. I do occasionally pop it on and can sometimes get one song done before enough.
But Zumba was a way to excise my desire to dance without making a fool of myself in front of 'serious' dancers and there are always a few at classes who don't take it as a hobby! It didn't matter if I got the steps wrong or didn't keep time because the music kept going and we were on to the next. I always wanted to try flamenco dancing and these classes had a bit of everything.
Plus dancing for exercise makes you bum round and waist trim. Ha.
So I decided to also add my favourite Just Dance routine (meaning about the only one I could actually beat my sons at!)
Tuesday, September 15, 2015
Yesterday I was still in mid-crash, the last part is always the kicker. Looking back at what I did, or rather all that I didn't do, was extremely painful.
Do I show what living with ME/CFS is like? I know if anyone is reading this it would possibly be dismissed as laziness without understanding just why everything is such a monumental effort. Can I get across the sheer frustration of not being able to do the simplest things one day yet the next I can push myself a little further?
It's hard to put myself up for judgement like this. I see how pathetic I look, I can hear the scorn and snide jokes about "wish I could rest all day". No you don't, believe me you really don't.
Bullet point your whole day -
Shit, here goes...
• 7 am - Ugh, hate alarms and now the mornings are getting darker I hate them too. Start "waking up" before I have to physically get up.
• 7:30 - Wake the boys up, prepare breakfast for them. Let the dog out to the garden to read last night's fox pee-mail. Feed the cats.
• 8 am - Despite the drama of the weekend Eldest still wants to cycle to school so off they go. Shove wash on, taking advice from my fuggy head and achy limbs admit defeat so back to bed before the pain starts.
• 11 am - annoyed I've lost the morning, aware this is not a day to attempt work without making more mistakes than I'm trying to resolve. Rest hasn't helped.
• 11:30 - clean part of the bathroom, give up as arms leaden so shower. It used to make me feel refreshed, now I just feel drowned.
• 12 - rest, yes, even though I've done nothing I'm whacked out. Take dog for run around the park behind our house. He runs, I shuffle along. Oh look it's raining.
• 1pm - need some food for dinner. Off to the local shop where I promptly forget what I needed. Grab some of the usual suspects and home before anyone sees me.
• 2 pm - after another rest the sicky feeling has dissipated somewhat so make some cream cheese on toast for lunch. Get started on the dinner as I can see how this day is going.
• 3:30 - remember about the wash! Day has gone to rain since this morning so fold it up.
• 4pm - the boys are home, full of their day in school. I love this part of the day where I listen to their stories of who did what, things they learned.
• 5:30 - dinner is boring, when I can't think clearly I fall back on the old faithful recipes I could make in my sleep but even then I feel the food is tinged with my lack of energy and enthusiasm. It feels like failure.
• 6:45 - auld peacenik here has both sons in the air cadets. Eldest has wanted to be a pilot since he was two and for people like us this is the only way he can achieve that. He wants to fly those big fat supply planes, as long as it's not fighters or drones! I wonder if he'll get a space or be pushed out by the usual middle-class kids from private school, if it's on enthusiasm and hard work he'll be fine but we know how the UK works. Youngest is considering engineering, he'd quite like to work for NASA or ESA so I can guess what he'd like to design. Anyway, I drop them off as I want to feel I've done *something* today.
9:30 - time for pick up. I've been avoiding the computer all day yet my head is being crushed in the vice anyway. On a plus point my limbs have gone that weird cold, numb way and my back and ribs no longer ache either.
10:30 - boys showered and off to bed. Me too. And now the big joke of ME/CFS - I can't sleep.
So that was yesterday. I've not detailed the pain or unrelenting fatigue as it was in danger of turning into a pity party as it stands. Would someone with ME/CFS look at this as a cop out because I've not described just how frustrating it is not to be able to do normal things or hopefully understand not wanting to focus on every little failure?
The sun is shining today, hoping it will be a better day once this neck ache sorts itself out.
One day I will wake up and all this will be over. I hope it's soon.
Sunday, September 13, 2015
There is no better way to spend a few hours than being lost in a film or in the pages of a book. So once I've posted these I will no doubt start scouring the dvd collection (yes, I'm old fashioned enough not to just stream everything).
It's Sunday, it's autumn, it's made for film afternoons/evenings!
Note that these are probably (definitely) not high brow, I read trash novels too. It's all escapism and sometimes you just want candy floss. In order not to have the longest blog post in history I've limited myself to five and made the rule that if these were on TV I'd make a special point of turning over to watch.
Amelie - loved this film from first viewing. For obvious reasons to any only child out there. And the music. See if you can spot what they did with the opening credits.
Dear Frankie - crying. Every. Single. Damn. Time. Plus, Gerard Butler was good once.
In Bruges - it is just not what I expected, the black humour sparkles. Plus, Colin Farrell was good once.
Casino Royale - full of plot holes but for the Eva Green character and the fact I grew up watching James Bond films with my dad I'll gladly waste an evening in the company of this. The "Bond song" and opening credits are amazing too.
Restless Natives - there were not many films where I could hear my accent as I was growing up. Unless it was as drunks on English TV shows. This is the kind of spirit I know exists in Scotland, that cheeky two-fingers up to the Establishment and you know what I'm going to say next - bet they would all be Yes voters!
Saturday, September 12, 2015
Today, for several hours, I was in the A&E department of the local hospital with Eldest. It was something that could have had serious consequences, on phoning the NHS helpline we were directed to go immediately there. Luckily it sorted itself out but may occur again. On the way home Eldest commented that this isn't the first time were a scary illness has been warded off him.
Meanwhile another few grey hairs for auld mum and another few months off my life. I let some people down today, because I had to go to the hospital and I'll chew myself up about that for a while. Eldest is fine and that is all that matters.
What are you excited about?
Excited...well, as I'm not going on holiday this year then I have to scale it down a notch. Usually at this time we're on the last few weeks before a week sponging up the sunshine and enjoying having someone else cook, clean and generally be responsible. Come December I will feel it, the endless trudge of days.
So, what excites me just now - decent art supplies, a project to hand and an afternoon to spend indulging myself.
|Never mind wish you were here, wish this was me!|
Friday, September 11, 2015
So it's probably a good thing that the next theme is this -
Write about five blessings in your life:
Now if you have been reading this blog, and god knows I'm most likely to be the only audience, then you'll know I'm a pessimist stuck in an optimist's body - or is it the other way round?
It is hard to think of the good things but still I can account for at least five blessings right now.
Of course, of course, of course it would be top of the list for these two. They've made a happy woman very old! An old photo here, about 10 years ago, but I loved watching them build sandcastles - very serious, very industrious. Hours of fun guaranteed. They'll be on every list where I have to name good things so get used to it.
Say what? What am I on about? Does the ME/CFS/whatever they want to bloody call it now not count? Yes, yes it does and I'm up at nearly 2:00 am because of it but I can still walk, I am not house bound, I am not bed bound. This may drag me down to the very depths of despair some days, I have forgotten what it feels like to awake refreshed, being able to walk a few metres without needing to find a resting place would be marvellous but I could be a lot worse.
It's a Pollyanna moment despite what has been described as the most debilitating of chronic illnesses, one that is constantly undermined and misunderstood but it's not going to win. I fully believe that one day it will pass and I can go back to a normal life, that's what makes me consider my health a blessing.
Is this a weird choice? I don't care. If I didn't have my sewing, my art, my writing, I would have been conquered by the black moods long ago. They give me an outlet to forget about things for a while, to get some enjoyment no matter how ill I am on a day, even if it's just looking through art books with shaking hands then it lifts the spirits. I am so glad I have things that define me to myself.
This Little House of Mine
It may be in desperate need of some TLC but I have managed to keep a roof over our heads and in this day and age that is surprisingly difficult. You would think in 2015 we would have worked out a way for everyone to be safe, fed and sheltered but human nature means no.
So I feel it is a blessing that, while each month is a financial juggling act and we've not the money to truly enjoy ourselves, we are housed, we have food and are relatively safe. Many, many people are not.
The bees who love the lavender in the garden. Beautiful paintings accessible in galleries. Libraries in old buildings. Listening to waves wash up on a Scottish beach. Waving to the International Space Station as it passes overhead. Appreciating the stars in a crisp, autumn night sky. The wind rustling through long grass. Pine trees carpeting the forest in their needles and the gentle creak of the wood. Seeing a wild animal (calm down, I mean a red squirrel or something, no lions in Scotland - yet). Watching the flowers and plants change through the seasons. Fresh snow. A little cottage by the sea. Standing on a sleeping volcano. Hearing a piece of music that perfectly captures the mood. Climbing into a bed of clean, fresh sheets. Snuggling in on a cold day.
Lots of tiny, little things that can make a life worth living. That is a blessing indeed.
Thursday, September 10, 2015
Tonight was the school concert, my sons have an amazing ability, both play the guitar, the piano and anything else they set their sights to, I am in awe of anyone who can play a musical instrument. Hearing them sit down and work out how to play a tune they've just heard on TV, or practise a new piece for the guitar ensemble.
Two instruments I'd love to be able to play so effortlessly - the cello and the piano. I can barely sing without cats arriving at the doorstep to see where the fight is, the boys read music, I just see lots of interesting shapes and patterns on the page.
Something you always think "What if..." about:
Oh, hear we go again with the dragging up the past, by the end of these thirty days it's going to have been like a giant therapy session. Saving the NHS money with every post.
Okay, sometimes I do wallow in "what-iffery", it can consume a person if not careful. And I'm not careful. If things hadn't have happened as they did would I still have my sons though? I've always felt so, it was more destiny, it was meant to be and I just picked a rubbish wastrel of a father. Blah.
There's a game people play "if you could go back and tell your teenage self some advice..."
If I could then my advice would be to believe in myself and to do what I wanted to do with my life and not what others wanted me to do. Life would have been much simpler and I would have had a much different path to follow.
I say that here because if I had that confidence to speak against the grain, to ignore my mother's line of "What do you want to do that for" every time I said what I'd like to do with my life then...what if...
What if I had gone to art school?
What if my love for art and story-telling had been encouraged?
What if I'd had the brass neck to say "Guess what, I don't want to be a nurse or a secretary Mr Careers Advisor so try again"?
What if my parents had been able to recognise that what Mr Careers Advisor said was wrong and discussed things properly?
What if I had the courage now to be able to stand up for myself?
Wednesday, September 09, 2015
Write about something for which you feel strongly:
The older I get, the more I prefer the company of animals and while there are a couple of topics that have me grasping for the correct words to show my feelings on the subject I'd have to say that nature is a top priority.
That sounds like a wide area, lots of meandering roads leading to one big issue and it is but when all is said and done I hate how we treat this world.
The animals, the land, it all has to bend to us. I've recently started researching who owns Scotland via this man, having heard him speak on the subject and it is fascinating and horrifying in equal measures. I had previously read about our beautiful highlands, far too much of which is owned by a handful of establishment figures for their own "pleasure" rather than for the good of the land and the people who no longer live on it.
The ecological destruction, the deforestation of native pine woods to the point where only 1% remain and raptors are continually poisoned is not how it should be. Landowners would rather see thousands upon thousands of acres of the highlands scorched so they can go shoot a few pheasants (or a few peasants, they'd probably not be bothered). There was a really good article I read which I now can't find but I will and link it here.
While it burns my soul to see Scotland like this I feel equally as passionate about the rest of the world too. Who can possibly look at country size gaps in the Amazon rainforest and not understand how serious that is? The lungs of the world and we've taken up smoking 100 a day.
While we fuck over the land we're equally as irresponsible with the wildlife so let's not even go near the disgraceful concept of 'canned hunts' and the inadequates who feel the need to participate in them. Hunting for food is different, hunting for sport is moronic. We've hunted many species to extinction, many others to the point of extinction. We're really useless as guardians of this world.
I mean, we invented a weapon that can destroy all life, including ourselves and we supposedly intelligent monkeys have stockpiles of these weapons to threaten each other with. If there are aliens visiting us they must wondered what the hell we're about.
Tuesday, September 08, 2015
Post some words of wisdom that speak to you:
This could be meme-tastic and the words depend entirely on mood, with that in mind I've decided on this from a favourite author, favourite book...if I could write like this I'd be a happy bunny.
“I let it go. It's like swimming against the current. It exhausts you. After a while, whoever you are, you just have to let go, and the river brings you home.”
― Joanne Harris,
Saturday, September 05, 2015
Right now doesn't mean current songs hopefully because I have no idea what's in the charts now...do they even have charts any more?
I don't really listen to music as much as I used to, growing old and fogeyish I guess but these, while not being my most favourite songs in the world, are high up on the iPod list (yes, I still have an iPod; yes it is old; no, I have no intention of changing it.)
Friday, September 04, 2015
Yeah, I know, I'm mixing the days up. Rebel, rebel. This was meant to be posted on Sunday but in a fit of pique I wrote it on Friday. Such fun.
Share something you struggle with:
Something? Just one thing? One? I seem to struggle with most things in life and the older I get the more I seem to struggle.
It wasn't meant to be like this, at this age I thought I would have sorted it all and be living a fairly mundane life with hubby and kids and all of that which was expected of me.
Yet I'm not.
Perhaps the thing I struggle the most with is the past, I can't stop picking over the bones of what happened; what I should have done; what others did to me and how I shouldn't have let that rule my life but I have. And the more I twist it over in my mind the more I struggle.
You would think the easiest thing to do would be to stop, oh yes, very easy, except it isn't. Not for me anyway.
So there is my struggle and I don't see a way out.
Five ways to win your heart
As soon as I read that I had a good internal chuckle to myself. For me, since that episode in 2007 when everything relationship wise went South, I haven't really bothered. After a while it just seemed to make sense to stay single, I had the boys as my priority and my self esteem and trust were shot to pieces. Who would be patient enough to put up with that. Plus now, with the ME/CFS, that's more than someone would want to contend with, I'm used to my own company and don't get any attention in that direction.
So all this is hypothetical as it is never going to happen but let's have some fun anyway.
When I was younger I used to say that I would want someone who loved me not only for who I am but who I could be. Still true.
I'm honest to the point of tactlessness, I need honesty but I need someone who can just reign me in a little, gently and without being overbearing.
A sense of adventure, that is such a cliché but to have someone who enjoyed travelling around as much as I did would be necessary. Nothing stupid though, I said sense of adventure, that doesn't go extreme, I like looking at hills and buildings, not throwing myself off them tied to a bungee.
Treat me well and it will be reciprocated. As a nurturing nurturer (it's a word if I say it is) I can't help wanting to look after people and make them happy, to have that acknowledged with a smile, a touch of the hand...
Read me like a book. It's not an interesting story but I am full of quirks and that can be annoying so to have that recognised, accepted and loved despite it all would be amazing. Plus, this is completely materialistic but to have that man know to buy me stupid things I like; a palette for my paints; other art supplies; a knick-knack I saw and admired. It doesn't have to be expensive, it often isn't (palettes are less than £2) but heartfelt and meaningful. In fact a beautiful seashell, stone, all free yet could lift the spirits indefinitely because it meant something. I have done this many times myself for people and would love to be on the receiving end of someone who can read a wishlist, just once, so I know how it feels like.
Thursday, September 03, 2015
Oh and day five is something I do spend a lot of time thinking about (daydreaming as is my want).
List five places you want to visit:
Only five and there is a whole world of places I'd love to go to with only lack of funds holding me back. Most of these choices may just happen, and I truly hope they do, some might not -
I'll whittle it down to places I've never been and my top five would be
|Swedish market - |
stuff IKEA, I want to shop here
I hear my sketchbook itching to open.
Collioure in the South, with it's artists would have to be another top destination to head to.
New Zealand In particular the South Island because look...
I love the Maori culture, I have an old Maori legends book my Uncle sent me many years ago but who can't fail to look at that scenery in utter awe.
|Orkney Standing Stones|
One day though, it is feasible and maybe we can see if it's true that if we visit Skye and the Hebrides we'll be the only Scots there! Much ado about the loss of local people to the big cities due to incomers putting the price of houses out of reach - I've heard Cornwall is the same. It is sad, I heard last night about the last speaker of Deeside Gaelic who died taking the language with her because everyone had left.
It's an interesting subject, who owns our land. Maybe I shouldn't go to these places because it would make me despair, I think of my notion to live elsewhere and wanting to envelope myself in that culture and language but I'd hate to be part of a movement that saw locals unable to buy in their own towns.
On another note - I hate the new Google logo, is it just me who thinks it looks far too much like a pared down version of Comic Sans?
Tuesday, September 01, 2015
Write about someone who inspires you:
Predictable? I don't care as there are people who inspire me and others in their actions, which make them well known. People like Jane Haining or Elsie Inglis, Violette Szabo or Irene Sendler. All women whose stories I grew up reading, inspiring and amazing women who reached beyond and discovered courage in a world where their place in society should have limited them.
Yet who do I choose - yes, of course my father.
I couldn't be as brave as those women but if I can be thought of half as well as my father was then I'll have done right with my life. Typically I didn't cherish what I had enough and I try raise my sons to be the kind of man their grandfather was. An old-fashioned concept but kindness and honesty are worth so much more.
I live a little life so my aspirations are not world changing but they change me and that is all I can do.
As a pernickity old grump it's about the best I can hope for.